The True Engine Behind Motivation
Six Formidable Strategies for Success You cannot Ignore Anymore
You could easily postulate that life is greatly influenced and guided by our choices. When we make decisions that are aligned with who we truly are, life begins to flow. Challenges still arise, but there’s a natural sense of harmony and purpose—even in uncomfortable moments of frustration, sudden changes, or delays.
This alignment hinges on understanding what we are genuinely motivated by. Having insights into what influences our personal, social, and professional dynamics, can alter the course of our trajectory in a positive and constructive fashion. Based on groundbreaking research in neuroscience in the past few decades, understanding our Motivational Perspective can be a powerful key to aligning with our authentic self.
Motivational Perspective
Motivational Perspective is a broader, panoramic approach that captures vast peripheral information, allowing us to navigate life effortlessly, more successfully, and with a genuine feeling of satisfaction.
The first thing to understand is that when we make decisions or set goals based on mental conditioning, we disconnect from our true inner intelligence. Conditioning that is not rooted in our true nature but based on what is expected of us, will mask our authentic motivation, distorting our natural perception and clouding our capacity to think and act clearly.
Maintaining the correct motivation is paramount to a fulfilling life and personal well-being. The issue, however, is that most people “transfer” into the opposite Motivational Perspective of their authentic design. This tendency isn’t anyone’s fault. It’s largely due to the lack of knowledge early in life, reinforced by childhood conditioning and its profound influence on our development.
We’re often compelled to make decisions rooted in societal norms or familial expectations, rather than from our own inner clarity and built-in organic strategies for living. Conditioning is powerful—its influence, based on cultural, religious, political, and social values, presses down on us from every angle. These values and expectations, embedded in parental structures, are the great conditioners of human motivation, steering us away from our natural motivations and into patterns of “transference.”
Six Formidable Strategies for Success
Each of us has an innate motivational design, and aligning with it means seeing ourselves, others, and the world in the right light. Below are the six primary Motivational Perspectives. When we maintain these perspectives, we’re empowered with natural strategies for success; when we “transfer” into the opposite, our lives fall into unproductive and often frustrating cycles. It can lead to all kinds of addictions, obsessions, and unwanted dilemmas.
The Masterful Investigator — Survival Intelligence — FEAR
The Calm Seer — Possibilities, Hope & Talent — HOPE
The Great Leader — Power & Leadership — POWER
The Intuitive Opportunist — Want — NEED
The Great Fixer — Probability — GUILT
The Visionary Hermit — Personal Destiny — DETACHED
Understanding and nurturing your unique Motivational Perspective is crucial. When we operate from this core motivation, our decisions and actions are attuned to our authentic self. However, each strategy has its own opposite “transference,” which manifests as a shadow side—an unappealing, ineffective version of our true potential. The work, therefore, lies in recognizing and reclaiming our natural motivations, freeing ourselves from mental conditioning, and living life from a place of empowered self-alignment.
Note: Transference happens within a binary structure: 1 to the 4, 2 to the 5, 3 to the 6, 4 to the 1, 5 to the 2, and 6 to the 3. See below what it all means. In order to identify clearly where you belong you can use the signposts as follows: FEAR always transfers to NEED and vice-versa. HOPE always transfers to GUILT and vice-versa, and POWER always transfers to WISDOM and vice-versa. Also, 1 to 3 Motivational Perspectives are not social, these people prefer to work alone and are self-absorbed in the process. Conversely, 4 & 5 profiles are transpersonal, 6 is in its own world and category. They are built to connect with others and are great at it. It does not mean that people with 1 to 3 motivations don’t connect with others or have meaningful relationships. It just does not come naturally for them as opposed to 4, 5, and 6 profiles.
1. The Masterful Investigator — Survival Intelligence
Aligned State: This person is driven by a keen survival instinct, marked by a relentless curiosity and a probing mind. Their investigative prowess allows them to navigate any terrain with a confidence in their ability to overcome obstacles. For example, a Masterful Investigator might be the first to spot potential risks in a business deal or discern the hidden motives of a new partner. They can quickly assess environments, cutting through surface appearances to detect underlying patterns, making them invaluable in crisis or high-stakes situations. Fear for them is the “mother of intelligence”.
Transferred State is to NEED: In the transferred state, their sharp survival instinct devolves into a consuming neediness or insecurity, marked by indecisiveness and dependency on external validation. This person, once assured, might start obsessing over financial security or believing they need to meet superficial standards before pursuing a goal—such as feeling they need extensive credentials before launching a business or they might “need” to lose 30 pounds before going out on a date. They lose sight of their intuitive competence, overcomplicating decisions with unnecessary “needs” or imagined barriers. They also try to be much more social and transpersonal than they are.
2. The Calm Seer — Possibilities, Hope & Talent
Aligned State: The Calm Seer perceives latent potential in people and situations, intuitively aware of what could unfold long before it happens. This perspective allows them to nurture talent in others, spotting diamonds in the rough or envisioning unique, unconventional solutions. A Calm Seer in a leadership role, for example, might recognize and develop the hidden strengths of team members, creating a harmonious, innovative environment. They serve as a source of calm and inspiration, encouraging people to aspire to be their best. They always know what to hope for because they see it and can wait.
Transferred State is to FIXING: When transferred, the Calm Seer’s vision deteriorates into a compulsive “fixer” mindset. Instead of nurturing, they become meddlesome, striving to “correct” everything that doesn’t align with their idealized vision. This can lead to micromanagement and frustration for everyone involved, as their calm foresight is replaced by an anxious need for control, making them prone to burnout. Rather than seeing potential, they focus obsessively on flaws and shortcomings. They also try to be much more social and transpersonal than they are in truth.
3. The Great Leader — Power & Leadership
Aligned State: The Great Leader carries an innate charisma and authority, naturally inclined toward roles where their guidance and decisiveness are valued. They are discerning and confident, able to distinguish true leaders from opportunists. For instance, a Great Leader might step into a challenging project and effortlessly inspire those around them, or identify a leader-in-the-making among their team and guide their development. Their presence commands respect, and their decisions are decisive, often groundbreaking.
Transferred State: In a state of transference, the Great Leader retreats into the Visionary Hermit archetype, convincing themselves that detachment or isolation is the answer to their woes. They may avoid leadership altogether, feeling safer in passive roles or withdrawing into private indulgences. This withdrawal is a kind of denial of their power, as they avoid the very responsibilities they’re designed to manage. Instead of leading others, they become stagnant, possibly indulging in escapist behaviors that divert their energy from meaningful pursuits. They also try to be much more social and transpersonal than they are.
4. The Intuitive Opportunist — Want & Need
Aligned State: The Intuitive Opportunist possesses a finely tuned awareness of what is missing, needed or required in a situation, making them adept at identifying unique opportunities. They have an instinctual understanding of timing and demand, allowing them to create value in places others might overlook. For instance, they might notice a niche in the market or anticipate a new trend before it emerges. In relationships, they can sense what the other person needs emotionally or practically, adapting effortlessly to weave new connections and create synergy. They are masterful at influencing who they know but do not do well with strangers and large groups.
Transferred State: When transferred, the Intuitive Opportunist’s discernment becomes clouded by irrational fears about survival and scarcity. They may become hyper-focused on security, seeing threats where none exist. This misplaced survival drive manifests in heightened anxiety or paranoia, often rendering them immobilized by fears that are out of proportion to reality. Instead of perceiving opportunities, they’re trapped in an exaggerated focus on personal safety, hindering their natural intuition and adaptability. They can fancy themselves as not transpersonal and influential, when in fact they are masters at it.
5. The Great Fixer — Probability
Aligned State: A Great Fixer’s mind is engineered to assess probability, knowing precisely what can be repaired, adjusted, or optimized. They see the potential for improvement in everything and everyone, allowing them to make pragmatic and impactful changes. They can inflict the right GUILT in others to make sure life gets better. For example, in a team dynamic, the Great Fixer might notice patterns in workflows that can be streamlined or foresee potential pitfalls and address them proactively. They will make everyone involved feel incomplete if they don’t follow through (GUILT) and live up to their potential. They bring a practical and solution-focused perspective, making them invaluable in any problem-solving context. They are fabulously gifted at attracting strangers that will make a difference in their lives and the lives of those around them.
Transferred State: In transference, the Great Fixer becomes the Fake Seer, overly optimistic and detached from reality. Instead of seeing probabilities, they become fixated on unrealistic hopes or fantasies, constantly waiting for things to improve without taking practical steps. This tendency can lead them to ignore red flags, underestimating risks, or expecting miracles. They lose their effectiveness, falling into a wishful “hope” mindset rather than embracing their true, pragmatic abilities to make meaningful improvements. It can lead to feeling the worst kind of guilt, the one that is not based on inspiring people to make things better but instead, feel helpless.
6. The Visionary Hermit — Personal Destiny — The Guru
Aligned State: The Visionary Hermit feels at ease with solitude and self-reflection, often withdrawing to tap into deeper insights about life and destiny. This solitude allows them to develop a unique perspective, seeing the world with wisdom and detachment. They are content observing from a distance, accumulating knowledge that eventually shapes their own and others’ lives. A Visionary Hermit might pursue a calling that requires isolation—such as research, spiritual guidance, or creative endeavors—finding fulfillment in paths that others may overlook. Others see them as oracles, gurus and true seers. They see where life is going with anyone they encounter—if the person seeks them out. If not, they never bother.
Transferred State: When the Visionary Hermit transfers, they become preoccupied with the concept of power and leadership, often in a superficial way. They might chase status or attempt to exert control over others without any true leadership skill. The Visionary Hermit, out of alignment, becomes obsessed with seeking validation through authority, often misapplying their energy in ways that contradict their natural state. Instead of embracing solitude and insight, they waste their potential trying to “prove” themselves in roles they aren’t suited for.
Steps to Realign with Your True Motivation
Identify Your Transferred Perspective
Begin by observing the patterns of thoughts, feelings, and decisions that don’t resonate with your natural sense of self. For example, if you’re a natural Great Leader but find yourself retreating from leadership roles, you may be operating from the “fake hermit” transference. Recognizing these deviations will clarify the ways in which conditioning has veiled your true motivational stance.Practice Self-Reflection and Awareness
Regularly check in with yourself to discern where your motivations are coming from. When faced with a decision, pause and ask: Is this what truly inspires and aligns with me, or am I acting based on external expectations or conditioned fear? Journaling can be helpful here, as it captures recurring themes that reveal where you might be slipping into transference.Consciously Shift Back to Your Core Motivation
Shifting back to your natural motivation isn’t a single decision; it’s an ongoing practice. When you catch yourself in the transferred perspective, consciously reframe your thinking. For instance, if you’re a Calm Seer who’s slipped into the “mad fixer” mode, refocus your thoughts on seeing possibilities rather than forcing fixes. This gentle redirection helps retrain your mind to operate from your true motivational strength.Engage with Authentic Experiences and Environments
Surround yourself with people, settings, and activities that support and mirror your core motivation. For example, if you’re a Masterful Investigator, engage in projects or discussions that allow you to explore, question, and uncover. Avoid environments that pressure you into seeking external validation or adopting motivations that don’t belong to you out of neediness.Build Resilience Against Conditioning
Recognize that conditioning is pervasive, and breaking free from it takes resilience. Develop mental practices, like meditation or mindfulness, that reinforce your connection to your true motivations. Remind yourself that each decision is an opportunity to realign and act from your core. Over time, the pressure of external conditioning will lose its hold.Celebrate Small Victories
Every time you make a choice from your correct Motivational Perspective, you reinforce your natural alignment. Acknowledge these moments, however small they may seem. This positive reinforcement strengthens your commitment and gradually shifts your patterns.
Moving Forward with Self-Alignment
Correcting your motivation is not about achieving a flawless alignment overnight; it’s about cultivating a steady, incremental shift back to authenticity. With each decision you make from your core, you gain greater clarity, confidence, and resilience. Reclaiming your true motivation empowers you to experience life as it’s meant to be lived—from a place of grounded, self-assured direction. Each step brings you closer to a life that resonates deeply with your inner purpose and potential.
“Every decision is a new direction, so choices become the pivotal factor determining the quality of our experiences and their outcome.”
Eric Stone
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I have learned one elementary truth: people are not their fears, their doubts, or the ridiculous stories running loops in their heads. People are geniuses waiting to explode onto the stage of their destiny. My job is to hand them the match.
I live by a single truth: my brain and body run my life, not my mind. My mind is a precious tool for research, stimulation, creative ideas, and communication with others—not my guide, my guru, my boss, or my friend. Energy inspires me, not thoughts. I wait to move and flow when my instincts kick in. The thinking is in the flow, just like a great wave is always part of the ocean.
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I don’t pretend to have all the answers. But I know this: the development of self—especially self-reliance—is the only education that matters, because every decision we make is in fact a direction. It determines the quality of our experiences and their outcome. If there’s a thread that runs through everything I do, it’s this: trust life and trust yourself—it will set you free.
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Such a great post. I'll need to return to this and read it again when I have more time to digest it. I feel that this misalignment is responsible for so many failed goals. As James Clear says, "every decision is a vote for the person you want to be." So many are unclear about who that really is.